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Have grown up without a father

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  • 153

    Guardianz89

    2 years ago

    well i already grew up with a father

    • 80

      Leon8455

      1 year ago

      no one cares :D

    • 199

      Ben Patterson

      9 months ago

      thats not very nice

    • 40

      Jacob Storms

      9 months ago

      Well I grew up with out a father and since j don't know him and love my mom to death I wouldnt trade her

    • 12

      Blackjackz

      9 months ago

      That's terrible ): I guess we are all nobodies

    • 11

      Billiam

      9 months ago

      in process of going without a father, I'm just waiting for Ben Kenobi to tell me that Vader killed Anakin and all that confusing mess

    • 8

      Zak Akira Gibson

      8 months ago

      You must be black.

    • 8

      noahqueen

      8 months ago

      My dad died when I was 8 and idk what I would do without my mom

    • 3

      Rochelle

      8 months ago

      My father may have been at his computer desk when he wasn't sleeping 24/7 But he definetly wasn't present.

    • 1

      Diego

      8 months ago

      Yep I myself grew up without one

    • 8

      Smokey.Kat

      8 months ago

      That's really not nice Leon, it doesn't matter weather you grow up with out a mother or a father, but either way it's a loss. But if it happens in real life and you mock someone about it, then it looks like you didn't grow up at all.

    • 0

      Nicholas Gauthier

      7 months ago

      do you mean without one

    • 0

      niewiem33

      6 months ago

      I dont have a dad and i think im just fine so im happy

    • 0

      iloveyouolivejuice

      4 months ago

      Same.

    • 2

      Brendan Rasenberger

      4 months ago

      I hate my father :/

    • 2

      Sherlock7667

      3 months ago

      Same here mine sadly died of cancer when I was four.

    • 0

      TemplarIngots

      3 months ago

      Hate my father.

    • 3

      Henry Andersson

      2 months ago

      Are you guys sick or something? How can you hate your father... and Leon, you can stfu.

    • 0

      XxxxBlack.Veil.BridesxxxX

      2 months ago

      my dad grew up without both

  • 41

    Guardianz89

    2 years ago

    well i already grew up without a father, wanting to delete that other comment now >.<

    • 4

      Sally

      4 months ago

      I already grew up without a mother.

    • 0

      Kat

      1 week ago

      I have a dad, but he feels like a stranger sooooo....yeah, I'd rather keep my mom instead.

  • 18

    oxytocin93

    1 year ago

    well i'v gone 18 years with out my dad so i guess i could go 18 more...

  • 13

    QuestIan

    1 year ago

    My poppa means the world to me.

  • 11

    firehawk2324

    1 year ago

    Hated my father. Love my mother. Easy answer.

  • 8

    TehSpaceSnake

    1 year ago

    I practically never had a father until now and if my mom wasn't around I would have had to make my own dinner at the age of 5 and walk to school on my own... Living in a city at that young is A LOT of risks. So honestly if my father were to dissapear it wouldn't make much of a difference other than less money but we were always poor so it makes no difference. Although it's the opposite way with my boyfriend. His father was better than his mom.

    • 4

      Leon8455

      1 year ago

      No one cares in the slightest, don't share your petty little stories on the internet dumb fuck.

    • 5

      tyler

      7 months ago

      Leon your a fucking asshole go kill yourself. No one would show up at your funeral or even cry over it because no one fucking cares about you. Not even your parents.

    • 1

      BearsAreDumb

      2 months ago

      Jesus, Leon is a piece of shit.

  • 8

    Kausus

    1 year ago

    I hate my mother. So this works.

  • 7

    mapxvc

    1 year ago

    You can't really debate this. People are just going to answer based off of life experience. My dad is an asshole, so naturally I prefer my mother.

  • 3

    AccioFreaks

    3 months ago

    I've never loved my father anyways.

  • 4

    Dylan

    1 year ago

    My dad makes all the money ...

  • 4

    iloveglobes

    1 year ago

    As a mother, I now know how important she is in my life. My dad is a POS.

  • 1

    BrandieO'Raidy

    1 month ago

    I wish I grew up without a father

  • 3

    nicobellic1994

    1 year ago

    already grew up without a father so voted for without mother...

    • 1

      Pe Keen

      9 months ago

      Y

    • 0

      nicobellic1994

      9 months ago

      shit. didn't notice my mistake. I've been to dumb to think at that moment I guess...meant to say only with mother so without a father.

  • 1

    Jack Van de Ven

    1 month ago

    Talk about making me feel guilty as fuck! Sorry dad

  • 2

    espen johansen

    8 months ago

    i have already grown up without a father anyways so it doesen't matter

  • 2

    skittles

    9 months ago

    I couldn't live without. Both of my wonderful parents

  • 0

    alexandra13

    3 days ago

    My dad was murdered when i was 5 .. I wouldnt trade my mother for anything. I love her to death.

  • 0

    daanr321

    3 days ago

    I grew up with my sister my mom died when i was born and my dad 3 years later. i would love to know them

  • 1

    Val

    4 months ago

    Mother can replace father easily

    • 0

      Val

      4 months ago

      Fathers don't do much now a days anyway

  • 1

    Judson Taylor Nagle

    5 months ago

    I already grew up without a father.

  • 1

    Meh.

    6 months ago

    I hate my father ^-^

  • 0

    Danielle

    2 weeks ago

    I grew up with a drug addict mom. She constantly stole my things, my fathers things, an my brothers, to feed her pain pill habit. When my dad finally divorced her she got even worse. The abuse got rough. When I attempted suicide for the second time the court finally picked up on that I probably shouldn't be in that house and put me in with my dad. Yeah I'm pretty ok with not having a mom

  • 1

    Robert Longacre

    6 months ago

    Fathers are the most abusive mine overreacts friken hates the sound of children crying

  • 0

    Tom Peake

    3 weeks ago

    Already grew up with out a mother homie. Breast cancer

  • 1

    Slender Man

    7 months ago

    I didnt grow up with anyone. Because i killed them with my static electricity.

  • 1

    Shannon Allen

    8 months ago

    Dad wasn't really there, so..

  • 1

    Bruce Wayne

    8 months ago

    Fuck my life

  • 0

    gardenGnostic

    3 weeks ago

    I don't want daddy problems

  • 1

    JessePinkman

    9 months ago

    My moms a BITCH yo

  • 1

    Nicole Arthur

    9 months ago

    My father died when i was ten so....

  • 1

    christian_ftw123

    9 months ago

    Love mom way to much.... But then again I wouldnt be eating without my dad

  • 0

    jbibian

    3 weeks ago

    I already grew up without a father

  • 1

    OhsnapitzEleanor

    9 months ago

    My mum did all the shit when I was growing up...

  • 1

    Lemmy

    9 months ago

    Fathers are more important developmentally, studies have shown. www.cbsnews.com/2100-1856...62151.html

  • 1

    Mikhail Equality Har

    9 months ago

    My mother's a bitch and can get shot in the face. My father is an amazing human being. This wasn't much of a decision for me.

  • 0

    shazumi

    4 weeks ago

    As a guy, you can learn more from your father than from your mother

  • 1

    Anonymous

    9 months ago

    Thankfully, I have both in my life. But I'm a daddy's girl, so.. :)

  • 1

    Shay Perkins

    10 months ago

    Kind of already happening.

  • 0

    Kazuya Mishima

    1 month ago

    If i didnt grow up with my mom, the house would be all dirty and stuff, and moms are good ppl but dads are too, so i's hard to choose

  • 1

    Dane Wolfer

    11 months ago

    Ive lived my whole life with out a dad anyways

  • 0

    halo66333

    1 month ago

    My mum is da best

  • 0

    Becca Cloward

    1 month ago

    My dad left when I was nine after not really being there anyways so yea

  • 1

    TVG16

    1 year ago

    Thats all ready my life. A mother will stay committed to her child.

    • 0

      Yuki Eats Babies

      8 months ago

      You'd think that, but I grew up without a mother because she abandoned me.

  • 1

    Matt

    1 year ago

    I grew up without a father so I would want to see how it is with a father

  • 0

    Redditorr

    1 month ago

    I did. He was in the army.

  • 0

    Elina Elric

    1 month ago

    I'm following the FMA backstory

  • 0

    Jessie Reyna

    1 month ago

    Divorce already answers this one.

  • 0

    SmoshRules

    1 month ago

    I didn't grow up with a father soooooo............

  • 0

    ToneRockz!

    1 month ago

    though i have both i can never leave my mom! its nothing if my dad leaves me! all i need is my mom! she is the one who knows me and takes good care of me!!! i would never trade her for anything! even my biggest dream of becoming succesful in life wont be enough to trade my mother!!

  • 0

    Jack Van de Ven

    1 month ago

    Talk about making me feel guilty as fuck! Sorry dad

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